Friday, May 16, 2008

A Supportive Husband


Check it out. My husband Charlie shaved his head so we could grow our hair back together over the summer. I have a feeling his hair will grow back a lot faster than mine – but he hasn’t yet agreed to keep it even with me! He has been a wonderful caretaker and co-survivor during this pesky bout with cancer, stepping up to help with my parents and taking on extra chores around the house when I’m not feeling well, but most of all being a rock of support and optimism right from the start. I’m forever thankful he is by my side and I plan for us to continue to stay side by side for many more years!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

Chemotheray Treatment #4!!


Had my 4th and final chemotheraphy treatment yesterday and so far, so good. Dr. Muss (pictured) was still quite perplexed over my recent drug reaction, so he tweaked my treatment a little. He switched out my Taxotere with Abraxane which has less of a potential for rash. Dr. Muss also cancelled my Herceptin yesterday, and I'll receive a Neulasta shot today to ensure my white blood cell count stays up and I don't have another episode of Neutropenia and a stay in the hospital. In regards to my red blood cells, I'm still a little anemic, which accounts for much of my fatigue.

In an odd twist of fate, I knew 2 of the other women in my "pod" yesterday, one is a colleague of Charlie's and one is a friend of a friend who recognized me previously from reading this blog. We had an interesting discussion on the progession of the understanding of our pathology and treatment plan. Think about it. I "officially" knew I had cancer on January 7th, had two surgeries in January but did not find out about the pathology of my cancer until March 3rd. Although I knew immediately I was node negative, I still had to wonder what else was going to come my way. Then when I did learn of my pathology, it's a whole new language and it sounds bad - HER-2Positive, ER/PR Postive, High Grade, and on and on. This all sounds bad - you don't associate the word positive with something good when receiving cancer news and it takes a while for it to sink in that all these things are good because they allow you to fight the cancer with even more drugs - and the more tools in your toolkit, the more successful you are!

So, it is with this positive thought that I finished my fourth and final treatment yesterday and look forward to continuing my Herceptin treatments for another 10 months and moving on the Hormone treatment after that! I just keep remembering that all these treatments combined contribute to the reduction from 32% to 5% for the chance of a relapse and from 13% to 3% for non-survival over the next ten years. All I have to do is combine that with a dedication for 1/2 hour of daily exercise and 5 servings of fruits and vegetables which according to a recent study will increase my survival rate and I'll be all set!

Monday, May 12, 2008

Good Things About Hair Loss

Since I’ve opted to forego covering my head during this phase of my life, I’ve discovered the following “good things” about my hair loss from chemotherapy treatments.


• No more bad hair days
• Save money on hair products
• Help the environment – my showers are much shorter
• Drive with the window open and not worry about messing up my hair
• Sales clerks are very nice to me
• Strangers smile at me
• No need to be concerned about hat head
• Can wear pullovers without worrying about hair
• Can try on clothes while shopping without worrying about messing up hair
• Can sleep a little later – it takes less time to get ready
• When I run into someone I haven’t seen for awhile, they
immediately know what I’ve been up to